SUGGESTIONS FOR BUILDING ASSETS

Asset # 2- Positive Family Communication

(Young people talk things over with their parents and are willing to get     and give advice.)

To Build Asset #2 Parents and Extended Family Can . . .

1. Answer all your children's questions honestly. Show you appreciate being asked-about anything. Make no topic "off-limits."

2. Ask about their day... the teacher, the playground, the kid who sits behind them in art. I low did they feel about the things that made up their day?

3. Set limits for how much TV is watched by everyone. Eat with and talk with your family instead of watching TV. When watching TV, look for opportunities to discuss what you see on TV and how it relates to real life issues.

4. Ask your children what they think about things. Then, listen to what they say. If you comment on what they say, be respectful.

5. Hold weekly family meetings. Let everyone speak openly but respectfully. Make sure the meetings include positive stuff like compliments, family fun plans, sharing dreams, or giving praise.

6. Think of the places that you know your child is comfortable talking with you - maybe the car, outside or the bedroom. Go to these places when you want to talk.

Simple Ways to Help Kids

1. Do a favorite activity with your child each week. Give one-on-one time to children.

2. Talk proudly about your children to friends, especially when they can hear you.

3. Do things in your home that include time for family conversation and sharing.

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26% of youth surveyed by Search Institute have this asset in their lives.*

*Based on Search Institute surveys of almost 100,000 6th to 12th grade youth throughout the United States

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"Kind, loving words seldom go in one ear and out the other." -          Anonymous